I have very fond memories of the best Valentine’s Day in 2006. Valentine’s day is soon approaching again this year. Why was this Valentine’s Day unique or different? I had received a dozen red roses before on Valentine’s Day before, but this particular Valentine’s Day I received a dozen yellow roses.
What made these roses different than just the actual color of the roses? Well, the card attached simply said “Anonymous”. I was divorced since 2002. I was not looking for a relationship at that time. My focus was on raising my son and my career.
Simple Card Stated it All
Of, course the card is always in an envelope from the florist (Barrett’s Flower Shop) where the flowers are purchased. So being the typical female I must know who had sent them. I had been on a few dates, but did not go on any second dates. Actually, there were no issues on the dates I was just fine with my life the way it was. But, I was intrigued.
Therefore, I called the florist and a lady answered the phone. I asked her about the flowers, but she stated she could not tell me who sent them because they wanted to remain anonymous. We chatted a little while longer and then I just said we are both female and you know I will not keep calling until I get the answer. Soon, she agreed and told me the individual’s name. He should have paid in cash and not left a trail for a female to follow.
Conversation Before Flowers
I knew the individual that sent the flowers. We had just met at work on February 12th. Yes, only two days before Valentine’s Day. A group of individuals at our workplace decided to play match-maker, which I did not appreciate. Again, I am not looking.
After the awkward introductions, we both politely endured and went back to our respective work. So, the match-makers decided we made a good couple. I received a phone call a few minutes later with from of the match-makers asking if they could give him my number and call me. I said no at first, but they persisted. Finally, I gave in, but if the answer to three questions was acceptable.
Terms & Conditions of Phone Call
I stipulated three questions before the phone call was to precede.
- Was he a Christian? If the answer was no, then do not bother to contact me. My faith was very important to me.
- How many times was married? If multiple failed marriages, then in my opinion he was the problem.
- How many children? I did not mind if he had children, just I did not want a lot of children with different mothers. I do not like drama.
He answered the questions honestly. The answers fit my needs to move forward.
Phone Call and Beyond
The phone call came. I knew instantly I was more intrigued. He was well-spoken and a gentleman. Based on the conversation, I knew he was a true gentleman. We agreed to meet for coffee, but I had tea because I am not a coffee drinker.
During the first meeting, my phones kept ringing. Yes, I did state phone”s”. I worked as a Quality Director over multiple sites and there was always an issue somewhere. My personal phone was for my other business (Home Interiors and Gifts), which I loved.
He was very patient while I answered the phone calls. He simply stated, “Wow, you are a busy lady”. Consequently, I assumed well that will be the end of this. Despite this, he called later to wish me a “Good Night”.
Wedding Bells
Exactly 27 days from the first awkward introduction we were married. Married on March 11, 2006. We have been married since. Neither one was looking for a relationship at that time, but God put together two strong-willed, type “A” personality people together. We sometimes joke that God gets a laugh out of putting us together.
Has it always been easy? Of course not, marriage is work. But, when you find someone who intrigues you right out of the box. The rest is history. When we share the story people who knew us prior are just amazed because we are both very independent people.
We get a laugh out of sharing the story and seeing the reactions on people’s faces when we say 27 days. We will have a toast with wine, (delivered to our door) each year to remember fondly the best Valentines’ Day ever. Yes, I received a dozen yellow roses on Valentine’s Day for the first 10 years until I said I wanted something different, perhaps jewelry.
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